So you’ve heard of the mikvah because a conversion requires it. But did you realize there are different kinds of mikvahs??
The women’s mikvah, of course. That’s where most conversions happen, female or male. It’s the nicest and usually also the cleanest. It’s made for single-person use and is primarily used for taharat hamishpacha reasons. These mikvaot must meet strict halachic requirements, while the other kinds of mikvaot have different requirements, making them easier (cheaper) to create and maintain.
The keilim mikvah. This mikvah is much smaller and is used for toveling (also pronounced toiveling) your kitchen items. The halachot of this is too complicated for us to discuss here, but you can Google it if you are too impatient to wait. In Israel, the stores that sell kitchenware often have a keilim mikvah on site! How cool is that, right?! You will get your first real taste of the keilim mikvah when you convert, and then again when you get marriage gifts. It is a pain to schlep all that to the keilim mikvah (especially without a car), and you will have an intense fear of breaking at least one glass item. Note that a natural body of water can be a mikvah. However, you’re unlikely to get naked and tovel yourself in it. Your new vegetable peeler though? That sounds like a great idea! (Remember to check with your rabbi about which bodies of water in your area can qualify as a kosher mikvah!)
The men’s mikvah. This mikvah is the butt of many jokes. It’s often not clean by female “ewww…” standards, and men generally do not get privacy. There can be as many men as can physically fit in that mikvah. Men’s mikvahs are bigger than the women’s mikvah, but have less preparation space. Think locker room. And that’s how I usually compare the men’s and women’s mikvaot, like men and women’s bathrooms. Thankfully, women’s mikvahs are becoming more luxurious and spa-like every year. Mens mikvahs are beginning to be cleaner and less crowded, I’m told. Men’s mikvahs are standard in many (most? all?) chassidic communities. Chassidic men use the mikvah much more often than other groups, often every week before Shabbat, and sometimes every morning. This is an area beyond my knowledge, I’m afraid.
Maybe your community doesn’t have all these kinds of mikvaot. That’s very likely. You may even have to drive a significant distance to reach any mikvah at all! (However, note that the mikvah is the very first “communal” thing that a Jewish community is required to build, before the synagogue or a school!)
In just about all communities, if you have a mikvah, it is a woman’s mikvah. The men may use it periodically (especially before Yom Kippur), and the community also uses it as a keilim mikvah. (Note that they may alternatively use a body of water.) You probably have to make an appointment to use it.
If you have two mikvahs, my guess is that you have a women’s mikvah and a keilim mikvah. A keilim mikvah can be much smaller and requires no preparation areas for people. It strikes me as significantly cheaper and, for most communities, more useful than a men’s mikvah.
A men’s mikvah is “easier” to make than a women’s mikvah, but they’re generally larger and do require some preparation space. My guess is that these are the least likely to be found in small communities, unless there is a significant chassidic community.
Larry Lennhoff says
Although no one outside of the communal leaders need worry about it, there are also different kinds of mikvaot based on how the water is held in the tank(s) and other factors. See Bor al gabbi bor, bor al hatzad, and Divrei Chaim bor for more details.
Anonymous says
The woman's mikveh isn't always where a guy goes during conversion. When my beit din convened, there was also a man converting and he went to the men's side.
Be careful about using the words "always" and "never".
Anonymous says
LOL, if you want to see something funny about men's mikve's I suggest watching Shais/Ma Nishtana's video about his mikve experiences (Manishtana.net, but the site is down)
Shades of Grey says
I remember talking to friends who frequented the men's mikvah in the old city of Jerusalem. The mikvah is big enough for 1 man to stand/submerge in each corner. On Fridays, and erev Yom Tov, which are the most popular/busiest days, they described long lines and a full mikvah as "bumper-to-bumper traffic." :p
Anonymous says
I did my conversion in the men's mikveh because someone was cleaning the women's mikveh but I did my preperations in the women's area. I coulnd't see much and I was nervous but I think it was clean.
Chayah Nechama says
haha, kashering everything and shlepping itto the Mikvah is really a kind of experience the last 2 weeks it seemed to me I spent more time there than elsewhere:-D. Really Iam happy its over and to be able to use my kitchen again :))
suzanne says
When I got married, I asked the mikvah lady if I could take in new dishes to do 2 for the price of 1. She said, "That's a different kind of mikvah, dear." I replied by quoting the verse, "Ach be mei niddah yitchata," from which we learn that dishes previously owned by a non-Jew must be immersed in a mikvah (the same 40 seah of natural body of water as the people mikvahs have). Despite my sound arguments, she still refused. I guess she didn't want me to take too long in there.
Anonymous says
You don't mention natural mikvaot like the sea, river or a natural spring. They're all good enough for conversion, niddah and dishes.
Daniel says
She probably means that the conversion mikveh requires the same standard as a woman's mikveh. A mikveh for men does not have the same standard. So the man might have gone to the men's side, but it would have been a mikveh that was kosher for women, unlike most men's mikvehs.